excertps from Mens Dating Magazine
1) Your Gut Sends You Signals
Does your gut tell you something's wrong?
The very first indicator is your intuition or your instinct. You know when you get that gut feeling that something just isn't right?
Trust it!
Even though you may not have any other signs of a cheating partner, your gut is generally incredibly accurate -- unless, of course, you have trust issues to begin with.
I think we're raised to believe in logic. But our intuitions overrule logic, so if you getting signals from your intuition, DON'T try to shut them out, thinking it's 'only in your head'.
It's probably not.
2) She Changes her Appearance
Did she change something major about the way she looks?
If you notice a sudden change in your girlfriend's appearance, like new or sexier clothes, a drastically different hair style, or a sudden preoccupation with her weight...
... this is one of the huge signs your girlfriend is cheating.
Women know that the best way to get a man's attention is by LOOKING attractive. Obvious, right.
So why would she suddenly change her appearance?
You got it! There may be another guy in the picture.
3) She Talks About Another Guy
Does she talk endlessly about another guy with admiration?
If you have a sister, you may have noticed when and how she talks about a certain guy, who she obviously has a crush on.
She tells you little stories about things he does or gives you small details about his life.
Well, if your girlfriend is suddenly discussing some guy she works with or met in this same way, this could be an indicator your girlfriends cheating -- or more accurately, it probably hasn't gotten that far.
She's just infatuated.
But if she suddenly STOPS talking about him or bringing him into conversations, this is one of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.
4) Physical Contact or Sex Decreases
Does she seem uninterested in sex with you?
This one should be obvious. Remember, if a woman isn't sleeping with you, in all likelihood, she's sleeping with someone else.
So if a woman rejects your advances or moves away from you when you initiate physical contact, this is one of the major signs of a cheating girlfriend.
Especially if this begins happening regularily without an obvious reason and it is also very different than how things were eariler in the relationship.
So if she's distant and you're getting that gut feeling that something isn't right, there's a good chance your girlfriends cheating.
5) She Gives You Too Many Details
Does she give you detailed explanations of her affairs?
If your girlfriend suddenly starts giving you detailed explanations of what she did last night or where she was, this is another of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.
Sure, women can talk a lot. But doesn't a complete narrative of what she did seem a little strange? Especially if it's out of her character.
Perhps this will sound odd, but...
It may be that she's feeling guilty and trying to prove she WASN'T cheating -- even though you haven't and didn't even expect it.
But if your girlfriend is trying to cover for herself without you even giving her a reason, she probably has one.
6) Unexpected Gifts or Favors
Is she suddenly being extra nice when she wasn't before?
Most women who cheat do feel guilty about it.
So another of these signs your girlfriend is cheating on you is if she starts doing extra special things for you.
Things she didn't do before.
If your girlfriend surprises you unexpectedly by buying you things or doing little favors for you, she may be feeling guilty about what she's done or is doing.
And she's being extra nice to make herself feel better about it.
7) Mutual Friends Act Strange
Do your mutual friends seem to behave oddly around you?
Most friends don't want to get caught in the crossfire, so even if they know your girlfriends cheating, they won't say anything.
Good friends will, even though they know it may make the situation uncomfortable for them.
But most will act weird around you. You'll pick up an uneasiness when they're around you and you may catch a few 'knowing' eye contact exchanges between them.
So if you're getting a weird vibe from friends, this may be another of the signs of a cheater partner.
8) Things Just Don’t Add Up
Did you find out later she lied about something?
Finally, things just don't make sense or add up when thinking back.
Perhaps your girlfriend said she was going somewhere, but later you find out she wasn't even there. Or much later, she mentions she was somewhere she 'shouldn't' have been without her thinking about what she's saying.
And it just doesn't click probably.
This is another of the signs of a cheating girlfriend.
Again, trust your gut. And though we're taught not trust these unseen 'powers', your intuition is probably the most reliable thing you can use.
Trust it!
It's the most reliable of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.
article by: Ken Marlborough
Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs which might give one a clue as to whether (and exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating.
The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can’t remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.
Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party – either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.
Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.
Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl’s daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.
